Fred's Alzheimers has got worse and we have moved him in to the Granny flat annexex next door to Graham so they can keep an eye on him. Graham goes in every morning and evening, Maria or I give hime his dinner at lunchtime and their 4 children pop in and out when they are not at school. They also take him in to their house most evenings so he feels safer and has more company and he has his medication regularly now. He used to forget when to take it when he lived on his own. Fred does sometimes forget that John has died and asks what is wrong with him and is he still in hospital! Thank you so much Graham, Maria and your family for looking after him and caring so much - we all appreciate it knowing he is safer and I'm sure Dad would be pleased.